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That is so crazy to love an object more than your family! No Offence! Even if maybe they are annoying or selfish or whatever, how can you love an object more than them? You lost an object, you can replace it but if you lost a family member, you can never replace it! So no matter how much you hate your family, remember, no one can replace them and not everyone has such good life ( some people lose their parents or siblings since they were born). So my answer is you cannot love an object more than your family!